tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-46735092644296050232024-03-13T04:46:38.272-04:00Diary of a Lactation Failure (Or a tale of two titties)Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15355486182575839930noreply@blogger.comBlogger230125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4673509264429605023.post-75877642542303895272016-04-27T11:49:00.001-04:002016-04-27T11:49:39.359-04:00At-Breast SupplementingI was a die-hard SNS fan for years, but I made the switch to the lact-aid nursing trainer with baby #5 and I love it! I now have experience with 4 types of at-breast supplemental devices, so I thought I'd make a post comparing them. <div><br></div><div><b><u>Home-made At-breast Supplemental Feeding Devices</u></b></div><div><br></div><div><b>Syringe and feeding tube</b> </div><div><br></div><div><b><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgLilmgTElXWkQ_lxXwDS44u4iWL-R0dp4oWTfFIdMn-aDGroEKvsScL2pbjnxvvVBuUlRdGDcOa1m4cSF7WkgvcAjDs2FxB7ME6OLXPIMOTxa5mSqeJQ5teRnAaX4fiizyVoxwHEuLetD7/s640/blogger-image--1498756102.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgLilmgTElXWkQ_lxXwDS44u4iWL-R0dp4oWTfFIdMn-aDGroEKvsScL2pbjnxvvVBuUlRdGDcOa1m4cSF7WkgvcAjDs2FxB7ME6OLXPIMOTxa5mSqeJQ5teRnAaX4fiizyVoxwHEuLetD7/s640/blogger-image--1498756102.jpg"></a></div> </b></div><div>A small syringe is filled with milk (collected colostrum, donor milk, formula), the tube is placed in baby's mouth while latched to the breast, and mother or support person slowly depresses the syringe to inject the milk into baby's mouth.</div><div><br></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjo1I76BS6d1_DZZMiCsEhFeEgW96XXnrbNaRAvBPy3_6woH6Ybwjih2ofh-8l0NcI4qpIBCgWj_ySBcYpDyF2ntf3BGA91eiZBQ71D18mEC70EoVo9csJPqSXbt-PXFug19PCaojHtv-0m/s640/blogger-image--1972289275.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjo1I76BS6d1_DZZMiCsEhFeEgW96XXnrbNaRAvBPy3_6woH6Ybwjih2ofh-8l0NcI4qpIBCgWj_ySBcYpDyF2ntf3BGA91eiZBQ71D18mEC70EoVo9csJPqSXbt-PXFug19PCaojHtv-0m/s640/blogger-image--1972289275.jpg"></a></div><i>A 5ml syringe and French 5 feeding tube</i></div><div><i><br></i></div><div><i><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhmiNlKrEtDw1ONPv8vF4CW8_3b4j_74V5dRKY68-H1e_0V4Y98yaCclVw_zHAnAl-8CGOLFKXQR_qWpv8BUO5eRXuKPyg6-8rtiK7HsH3V7APPrD-6EhpZ_rPFZrKu7JNEtQXMjuryZdcL/s640/blogger-image--1155593600.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhmiNlKrEtDw1ONPv8vF4CW8_3b4j_74V5dRKY68-H1e_0V4Y98yaCclVw_zHAnAl-8CGOLFKXQR_qWpv8BUO5eRXuKPyg6-8rtiK7HsH3V7APPrD-6EhpZ_rPFZrKu7JNEtQXMjuryZdcL/s640/blogger-image--1155593600.jpg"></a></div>A larger syringe for bigger feedings</i></div><div><i><br></i></div><div><i>Pros: </i>Good for small feedings in the early days when baby's intake is very small, perfect for feeding colostrum harvested during pregnancy (I'll be working on a post about that someday, too!)</div><div><i>Cons: </i>Often requires a support person while mother is supporting baby, can be frustrating to attempt without support person, not convenient for larger feedings which would require refilling or switching out syringes</div><div>To clean: fill syringe with hot, soapy water and attach feeding tube. Force water through. Repeat with vinegar (optional) and clear water.</div><div><i>Recommended? </i>It's worth a shot, at least for the first few days. But it's not easy to juggle a newborn learning to nurse AND slowly depress a syringe at the same time, so ask someone to help you! And if there's no one to give a hand, I'd recommend nursing first and then supplementing with the syringe without the feeding tube. </div><div><br></div><div><b>Feeding tube and bottle</b></div><div><b><br></b></div><div><b><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgpj8Y8UHBoLsy6MN28WBFFtZg6WpecTAbQ5TzENtJA9YHqZILWJappK_0DnjveXvfGbO3GyzagQNVy2veMnOjPMsC5pdOex0cLfTGraiTZyMUTyXcFqMCrue7n5LWSG1MMuCFnjEWlm5vK/s640/blogger-image-38953527.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgpj8Y8UHBoLsy6MN28WBFFtZg6WpecTAbQ5TzENtJA9YHqZILWJappK_0DnjveXvfGbO3GyzagQNVy2veMnOjPMsC5pdOex0cLfTGraiTZyMUTyXcFqMCrue7n5LWSG1MMuCFnjEWlm5vK/s640/blogger-image-38953527.jpg"></a></div><br></div></b></div><div>For this version, I drilled a hole in the lid of a milk collection bottle and fed the tube through the hole. Our IBCLC gave us the feeding tubes, but you may be able to get some through a medical supply store or online.</div><div><br></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgCEPwRh1vFo1WOPYo2fxD_0MfNJ878ZTsGAKEzyvVweFyiG7uI6A3Qxm1SXYdF610Bd8faI3heePQS9c_iclJJc8CZaqB3qRPz72NV69OO8vG8bUZpaBQN8ilv6wNn_XAAT-ubL_-wEKlm/s640/blogger-image--597956724.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgCEPwRh1vFo1WOPYo2fxD_0MfNJ878ZTsGAKEzyvVweFyiG7uI6A3Qxm1SXYdF610Bd8faI3heePQS9c_iclJJc8CZaqB3qRPz72NV69OO8vG8bUZpaBQN8ilv6wNn_XAAT-ubL_-wEKlm/s640/blogger-image--597956724.jpg"></a></div><i>The end of the feeding tube that attaches to the syringe goes into the bottle and helps weigh it down. </i></div><div><i><br></i></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiqpd2I-pAotb4YSZ-HF6E29QcDjsOG0WA-yAZyBBIIYLQczCLvugSXHxLuxic6W86nE5-I5pDVeEsjZc5-yNCxihWql3nCvXpQLFwvNh-sHfJQJTdx7Jdy_1ohBgzIJNeel59s7ck6ZrLY/s640/blogger-image-279300778.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiqpd2I-pAotb4YSZ-HF6E29QcDjsOG0WA-yAZyBBIIYLQczCLvugSXHxLuxic6W86nE5-I5pDVeEsjZc5-yNCxihWql3nCvXpQLFwvNh-sHfJQJTdx7Jdy_1ohBgzIJNeel59s7ck6ZrLY/s640/blogger-image-279300778.jpg"></a></div><i>A different version of the same kind of set up, the feeding tube is fed through the nipple of a bottle making it more spill-proof.</i></div><div><i><br></i></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg4tIZx-v6r7mOl9KQ-r9Fbrr6b4b9dU1Bic5n5YEMimR06Fx_qvRt91Q408yPOJA98oDh_kpbUD0hTFFi7KLo4Y4LL5u8QuUl38_0yfwnvIx_YabIHALJEfcQBfluhd16gCHbXAmCCW-Gs/s640/blogger-image--614815146.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg4tIZx-v6r7mOl9KQ-r9Fbrr6b4b9dU1Bic5n5YEMimR06Fx_qvRt91Q408yPOJA98oDh_kpbUD0hTFFi7KLo4Y4LL5u8QuUl38_0yfwnvIx_YabIHALJEfcQBfluhd16gCHbXAmCCW-Gs/s640/blogger-image--614815146.jpg"></a></div><br></div><div>Some moms prefer a longer feeding tube so the bottle can be placed on the table, and some moms keep the bottle close to baby. </div><div>To clean: fill a syringe with hot soapy water, and flush through the tube. You can repeat with vinegar, if you'd like. Then flush with water. </div><div><br></div><div><i>Pros: </i>Inexpensive. Stiff tubing can be easier to insert into baby's mouth. Can be used with any size bottle or container.</div><div><i>Cons: </i>Some babies dislike the feeling of the stiff tubing in their mouths.</div><div><i>Recommended? </i>Yes! This is a great short-term OR long-term supplemental feeding set-up (although the tubes will need to be replaced if using long-term.)</div><div>I'd also recommend this for someone attempting to relactate or get baby back to breast before investing in the more expensive commercial at-breast supplementers. </div><div><br></div><div><b><u>Commercial At-breast Supplemental Feeding Devices</u></b></div><div><b><u><br></u></b></div><div><b>Medela Starter SNS</b></div><div><b><br></b></div><div><b><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjlS_OBOSOBabQ6GfPtZTnHRuf_kqvH3LwuucLSGJlS59lN8sTOU76Hm0Zt8V8L9Mx26PW0RLtQTL9Qo4v5wLL7-WsgN3Bpe43E4w_AXQK7UKenX_einAV1ysZaGo2wFQ0ZX5mnqjUvXvhb/s640/blogger-image-972505784.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjlS_OBOSOBabQ6GfPtZTnHRuf_kqvH3LwuucLSGJlS59lN8sTOU76Hm0Zt8V8L9Mx26PW0RLtQTL9Qo4v5wLL7-WsgN3Bpe43E4w_AXQK7UKenX_einAV1ysZaGo2wFQ0ZX5mnqjUvXvhb/s640/blogger-image-972505784.jpg"></a></div><br></b></div><div> This is probably my least favorite as a low supply mom, but it could be more helpful for a full-supply mom who just needs a little help getting her supply up.</div><div><br></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEirhFR6GqOdTGSez2VjfKdtuxJfySE9L8RGiV4RRFFeOSUl5FHazJa-HgZtFhvAlYPHn1iX4c3KbEu_yCoCouJKmDFzistyckWNnOdZYvH5jXSLqOcaRPq1QlPoDjA1WEYjA6uj-VCncuwZ/s640/blogger-image--1975022040.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEirhFR6GqOdTGSez2VjfKdtuxJfySE9L8RGiV4RRFFeOSUl5FHazJa-HgZtFhvAlYPHn1iX4c3KbEu_yCoCouJKmDFzistyckWNnOdZYvH5jXSLqOcaRPq1QlPoDjA1WEYjA6uj-VCncuwZ/s640/blogger-image--1975022040.jpg"></a></div><i>The starter SNS consists of a teat with a tube, and a valve assembly, which attaches to a 2.5 ounce collection bottle. </i></div><div><i><br></i></div><div>The Medela Starter SNS is (supposed to be) a short-term supplemental device. It's a gravity-fed system, and the height of the device dictates the flow. You can also prime the teat to "prime the pump"/release some pressure.</div><div>To clean, you take the assembly apart and rinse, then fill with hot, soapy water and reassemble, then force<span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"> water through by squeezing the teat. Repeat with vinegar (optional) and clean water.</span></div><div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"><i>Pros: </i>Relatively inexpensive. Okay for short-term use.</span></div><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif"><i>Cons: </i>Feedings often take a long time which may tire baby out. Not really built to last. Hard to use discreetly in public (if you're into that kind of thing).</font></div><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif"><i>Recommended? </i>Eh, if you get one for free, give it a shot. Not my favorite, but some people prefer it. Different strokes for different folks.</font></div><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif"><br></font></div><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif"><b>Medela Long-term SNS</b></font></div><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif"><b><br></b></font></div><div><font face="Helvetica Neue Light, HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif"><b><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi-qKvob8Ujf255Gp1ZpVjjwy1lj8g3Z9Zj81cuR6ZMpWpP5G73oWd3vG3ThTgHjyLuDrUDUuQEPpmlnq6xWz2fzxFquqEg1xeylDA-U1MHKE_Jr-Ix9Yqr7WtTd1oD3PeBCsURdzR2M2ME/s640/blogger-image-1878002758.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi-qKvob8Ujf255Gp1ZpVjjwy1lj8g3Z9Zj81cuR6ZMpWpP5G73oWd3vG3ThTgHjyLuDrUDUuQEPpmlnq6xWz2fzxFquqEg1xeylDA-U1MHKE_Jr-Ix9Yqr7WtTd1oD3PeBCsURdzR2M2ME/s640/blogger-image-1878002758.jpg"></a></div></b></font></div><div><br></div><div>I have a LOT of experience with this one, obviously. And my most recent experience taught me even more.</div><div><br></div><div>The Medela long-term SNS has two tubes. It's a gravity-fed device like the starter SNS, and height dictates flow. Second tube can be released to let out pressure or left open for faster flow. </div><div>The best instructions I've found for using it are on this website. http://watanabe.fastmail.jp/sns.html</div><div>To clean: rinse bottle, fill with hot, soapy water. Reassemble and force soapy water through the tubes. Repeat with vinegar and water.</div><div><i>Pros: </i>3 different tube sizes (small, medium, large). Made for long-term use, reusable bottle. Easy to see how much baby has eaten with clearly marked milliliters and ounces. Gravity-fed milk flow can be helpful for weak babies.</div><div><i>Cons: </i>Prone to leaking if cap is too loose or too tight. Expensive to replace tubes or missing parts. Hard to use discreetly in public.</div><div><i>Recommended? </i>Sure. I used it for years, although I always said I had a love/hate relationship with my SNS.</div><div><br></div><div><b>Lact-aid Nursing Trainer</b></div><div><br></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj6mCkey7WQN7m-IQtUN4q9snVOhCmeosC1pMJFmmPmUyA2NWthLGi2UfoINpRG2LK7NtUGJBFCPGqqwrcctN-ecXyELeXxTNORD04_dxeEfrCLVubkIoGXaweJQlOzfaD2kRxt5ncNBBgM/s640/blogger-image-1791078363.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj6mCkey7WQN7m-IQtUN4q9snVOhCmeosC1pMJFmmPmUyA2NWthLGi2UfoINpRG2LK7NtUGJBFCPGqqwrcctN-ecXyELeXxTNORD04_dxeEfrCLVubkIoGXaweJQlOzfaD2kRxt5ncNBBgM/s640/blogger-image-1791078363.jpg"></a></div><br></div><div><br></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjnJxQ1ZorEY5YxdgQ8O32IvOGeQOloJ8WkntogzBo06abzWVhLZlsnyCnga5NhkvThMxxrMzMECbnhl06QsALI_CYD8EKFGMozlbBtl8QEqEHL3AgjxPsddU5Ulfz20lH6WT7WujzMQDfS/s640/blogger-image--464695597.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjnJxQ1ZorEY5YxdgQ8O32IvOGeQOloJ8WkntogzBo06abzWVhLZlsnyCnga5NhkvThMxxrMzMECbnhl06QsALI_CYD8EKFGMozlbBtl8QEqEHL3AgjxPsddU5Ulfz20lH6WT7WujzMQDfS/s640/blogger-image--464695597.jpg"></a></div><i>Somehow that blue thing is supposed to help you hold up the bags while filling, but I just stick the bag in a clean coffee cup. The funnel goes into the bag for filling. The little white thing is a filter for formula, you insert into the funnel. Then there's an assembled lact-aid, and cleaning syringe. </i></div><div><i><br></i></div><div>The lact-aid is hard to describe. And I know it looks overwhelming. I was overwhelmed, myself. </div><div>The lact-aid is not a gravity-fed device, and in the early days, my baby was not strong enough to remove milk well. The bags also have no units of measurement printed on them, so unless baby has been able to remove an obvious amount of milk, it can be hard to tell if the milk is flowing at all.</div><div>Once my little guy was gaining well and gaining strength, we got the hang of the lact-aid and never looked back. Now that it works for us, it is THE BEST THING EVER! </div><div>Cleaning is pretty easy with the bulb syringe. Fill it with hot, soapy water, flush the lines. Repeat with vinegar. Repeat with water. No sweat. </div><div><i>Pros: </i>Looks complicated, but isn't. Easy to tuck in bra and go. More discreet use in public. Less leaks than Medela SNS. Multiple units make life easier.</div><div><i>Cons: </i>Not cheap. May be difficult for a struggling baby, can be hard to tell if the milk is flowing, bags are single use*, bags aren't marked in mililiters or ounces so harder to monitor baby's intake.</div><div><i>Recommended? </i>Yes. This one is by far my favorite. Unlike the Medela SNS, I have a love/love relationship with this one. If you do get the lact-aid and fall in love with it, get as many units as you can. Makes life much easier. :)</div><div><br></div><div>*I've heard some people wash and re-use bags, but for liability's sake, you didn't hear it from me. </div><div><br></div><div><br></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15355486182575839930noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4673509264429605023.post-16827631264859373982016-01-06T09:59:00.001-05:002016-01-06T09:59:55.744-05:00Birth of Baby Bluebird<div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;">I'm November 5th- I woke in the night to several mild to moderate contractions, but instead of getting stronger, they fizzled out and I went back to sleep. Throughout the day, I continued to have random mild contractions, but no pattern and no consistency. I lost my mucus plug, though, and started having my bloody show.</span></div><div>I thought labor was beginning several times, but contractions continued to stop. I ate, rested, and kept myself hydrated.</div><div>At 10 pm, a contraction woke me up. I went back to sleep. At 11 pm, I had another. I got up to pee and then the contractions began to come every 5 minutes. I began to make the groaning cake, pausing to moan and dance through contractions. We called the midwives. I popped the cake pans in the oven and mixed up the frosting.</div><div>The first of our birth team arrived and helped Rob start to fill the birth tub. My contractions were already incredibly intense, and I couldn't wait to get in the water. Unfortunately, we have very low water pressure so I had to wait what felt like forever. </div><div>I couldn't believe how strong my contractions were, and I couldn't find relief. I dropped to my hands and knees and tried to rock through a contraction, and then I was told the pool was ready. I hopped in eagerly and immediately had another contraction. </div><div><br></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj1IbU7wN1Hei6e3bkPeiI1fON4ZvTpyf5WI7nbaVf4CJy-o4CNa-ZHG1tygOEcPhf1Ch-gkHy1n9p9rFllfNdYY9NRED6f7srUu79YvoGe6jiKpRiRqaj0qznr8KIb-cdbItPUlSjmAihyphenhyphen/s640/blogger-image--1194940987.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj1IbU7wN1Hei6e3bkPeiI1fON4ZvTpyf5WI7nbaVf4CJy-o4CNa-ZHG1tygOEcPhf1Ch-gkHy1n9p9rFllfNdYY9NRED6f7srUu79YvoGe6jiKpRiRqaj0qznr8KIb-cdbItPUlSjmAihyphenhyphen/s640/blogger-image--1194940987.jpg"></a></div><br></div><div>The water helped a little, but I continued to be slightly overwhelmed by the power of my contracting uterus. I was already quite over the whole labor process. I was hot, I was cold, I was shaky and felt slightly nauseated. I felt like my contractions were transition strong, and bellowing to the point of almost pushing helped me get through the peaks.</div><div><br></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJTDTZJnQasUnBw6OWcs5ZNXQkLGq31WkiYUbr8-wyCWOQMoj5BfjDP9GTrG_RWlBCOfkSGORVRuG6R4MLvcSiejEi1AE1W2k43FYdSEB45aOvfgDnt0KGn1jJLR7k955En2JTNYS4SIie/s640/blogger-image--1288879294.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJTDTZJnQasUnBw6OWcs5ZNXQkLGq31WkiYUbr8-wyCWOQMoj5BfjDP9GTrG_RWlBCOfkSGORVRuG6R4MLvcSiejEi1AE1W2k43FYdSEB45aOvfgDnt0KGn1jJLR7k955En2JTNYS4SIie/s640/blogger-image--1288879294.jpg"></a></div><br></div><div>My transition during this labor was by far the longest, and I was desperate to cross the finish line. I had been kneeling, but decided to sit back, and my contractions began to get "pushier," but I wasn't fully pushing yet. </div><div><br></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgLwK9lIaaLVUajKs6MO4yzcsYgxYZrW7ZUiPydIRUyrC-4mvmRHccuXPYag87VHGilgUC_qmNHCfzBcMqOyADHixEX1UdleLDzIIB-crn0p2lwW-iGSdSKeM-lUkfzCohad1RCZUNDzHLX/s640/blogger-image--525987672.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgLwK9lIaaLVUajKs6MO4yzcsYgxYZrW7ZUiPydIRUyrC-4mvmRHccuXPYag87VHGilgUC_qmNHCfzBcMqOyADHixEX1UdleLDzIIB-crn0p2lwW-iGSdSKeM-lUkfzCohad1RCZUNDzHLX/s640/blogger-image--525987672.jpg"></a></div><br></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgFRFlGzepJ9RFahxp_Tz7UZUAIp7iAVj-NvdfV6nzDXKwq81ic-5QvPND_o8tinBR4ynbyI4Y7gpt9Un9T-4Gpl9mu2tZo7WeOZ-lUeNtkShgs5bKF_r7Ooea0NBpvfcuK1PJguBRwf2af/s640/blogger-image-1240511791.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgFRFlGzepJ9RFahxp_Tz7UZUAIp7iAVj-NvdfV6nzDXKwq81ic-5QvPND_o8tinBR4ynbyI4Y7gpt9Un9T-4Gpl9mu2tZo7WeOZ-lUeNtkShgs5bKF_r7Ooea0NBpvfcuK1PJguBRwf2af/s640/blogger-image-1240511791.jpg"></a></div><br></div><div>I kept changing positions, listening to the feedback of my body. I stuck two fingers inside and was quite surprised to find the bag of water and his head about 2 inches from the opening. I knelt with my legs wide open, and kept my fingers on his head and felt him move down with every push. </div><div><br></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjDgN4jpCEVCdKvDKEfyRgBCqe610DBey1tWmYoFf-3sQxjHXwvbT5aC3XxUVFU3LeQALY6R9Pgq6jBtFM0edJ23qqatgRVj7VZ5peMai0_qNYfGvNW3VWxafsJp_X0WlVGI2LeKgSu_0L8/s640/blogger-image--1248840818.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjDgN4jpCEVCdKvDKEfyRgBCqe610DBey1tWmYoFf-3sQxjHXwvbT5aC3XxUVFU3LeQALY6R9Pgq6jBtFM0edJ23qqatgRVj7VZ5peMai0_qNYfGvNW3VWxafsJp_X0WlVGI2LeKgSu_0L8/s640/blogger-image--1248840818.jpg"></a></div><br></div><div>My amniotic sac ruptured and I could feel his wrinkly little head. At first, I thought he was another baldy baby, but a few pushes later, I felt quite a bit of hair. </div><div>I kept waiting for the "good feeling" I'd had with previous births while pushing, but it never came.</div><div><br></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiQOLqMeIJZnYDuC_vyr0zyPy2M1OMmpN8RFfdP9TDVcwsSDW14dFFFVMnZQNC21od8VU6ML3omyJGk7tqD9oXflqnp29ZJjCzUZhj5pl6wdkfsAdRhefyNN9w3l4jSAUQ8qBfv3m6J4fC8/s640/blogger-image-1715744001.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiQOLqMeIJZnYDuC_vyr0zyPy2M1OMmpN8RFfdP9TDVcwsSDW14dFFFVMnZQNC21od8VU6ML3omyJGk7tqD9oXflqnp29ZJjCzUZhj5pl6wdkfsAdRhefyNN9w3l4jSAUQ8qBfv3m6J4fC8/s640/blogger-image-1715744001.jpg"></a></div><br></div><div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;">I continued to change positions from kneeling to almost all fours, supporting my perineum as needed. In what felt like an incredibly short time, his head went from inside me to outside me. "His head is out!" I gasped, and I could feel the cord around his neck. Another push and his body slid out. "He has a nuchal cord," I said, and unwound it from around his neck. It was wrapped around twice! Then I pulled him out of the water. </span></div><div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"><br></span></div><div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhi7B62lp0c3N4ekULul1ZxVCH26-KaA8O20AktOSku11R3L_lfNPZ87K_CzN_DXyC0qkc9f_FZIDzesoMKBY0kyzU4PKU_2kIed1vzOFPlEFYGZGq9tWyUPzxF63nK-JsWQOzRyM9t17-S/s640/blogger-image-1467562619.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhi7B62lp0c3N4ekULul1ZxVCH26-KaA8O20AktOSku11R3L_lfNPZ87K_CzN_DXyC0qkc9f_FZIDzesoMKBY0kyzU4PKU_2kIed1vzOFPlEFYGZGq9tWyUPzxF63nK-JsWQOzRyM9t17-S/s640/blogger-image-1467562619.jpg"></a></div><br></span></div><div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;">He was a little stunned and wasn't immediately responsive. He looked surprised! We rubbed his back and feet and soon he began to grimace and then let out a soft little cry. And then he began to take in the world around him, quiet and alert. </span></div><div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"><br></span></div><div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi3yNtDK9w_O1vwzERfN21DUf3MZcf6rUtCb6btTcK-kLNT_xIOAuxVbtd_QP62x_Kf9ZJ5HqK_e-u2I4VT8VzA-TzSsUOCdv5_WINoK57DqDpnRiY_zCOvblg9d3XjcrMG5qDGts-E5vpy/s640/blogger-image--379586701.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi3yNtDK9w_O1vwzERfN21DUf3MZcf6rUtCb6btTcK-kLNT_xIOAuxVbtd_QP62x_Kf9ZJ5HqK_e-u2I4VT8VzA-TzSsUOCdv5_WINoK57DqDpnRiY_zCOvblg9d3XjcrMG5qDGts-E5vpy/s640/blogger-image--379586701.jpg"></a></div><br></span></div><div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjTOCBSDuMEfkyhF0K-x1y0vuQYuPwp36PPHeC24lo1bTtiQ8f1C7kXO2oUy4LDrYn3mVwsU5jjzIms0GP7y76T_cnbOOG7XrUrSjDLnY_RlU9smdnHARP3uK_-yfbDjzIhwT7WPzOO93c1/s640/blogger-image--1172822630.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjTOCBSDuMEfkyhF0K-x1y0vuQYuPwp36PPHeC24lo1bTtiQ8f1C7kXO2oUy4LDrYn3mVwsU5jjzIms0GP7y76T_cnbOOG7XrUrSjDLnY_RlU9smdnHARP3uK_-yfbDjzIhwT7WPzOO93c1/s640/blogger-image--1172822630.jpg"></a></div><br></span></div><div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;">He was so peaceful and calm, completely unlike his siblings at birth. A totally new experience, and one I had been wishing for. </span></div><div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"><br></span></div><div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgMU_o_amoQLotnbNfmhskNN1xSuQgRsCPoWY7WhFaZJjk3qreuv4-7vk9ufWCYqgnqDFCBZEJYxK52mG8zOtGxZixo9vbviTxEx5NF-qNEC-nhGDtUrQ2xDzeptCoFe7xQ21giR-p_TG_r/s640/blogger-image-705098854.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgMU_o_amoQLotnbNfmhskNN1xSuQgRsCPoWY7WhFaZJjk3qreuv4-7vk9ufWCYqgnqDFCBZEJYxK52mG8zOtGxZixo9vbviTxEx5NF-qNEC-nhGDtUrQ2xDzeptCoFe7xQ21giR-p_TG_r/s640/blogger-image-705098854.jpg"></a></div><br></span></div><div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;">The pool began to feel cool, so Eliza cut the cord and we waddled our way to bed. He latched on like a pro while we waited for my placenta to detach. </span></div><div>I was so pleased to have a minor "skid mark" tear, because I've needed stitches with all four previous births, from a 3rd degree episiotomy to a fourth degree tear. That alone was a huge victory for me. </div><div><br></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhv0QkoQ690wkl1OY67k9pHeBNX3OwvQIBXF4Y80IwLMKUo_EsXJkKdNHRu8w9_yOH1b-8z7ndxz26gLVirtbbE0jjyMEwsBkEKf8ZYKkWTUe3vqYw5pojgsbLl8OxnVdo0_HkKH0X0FBVm/s640/blogger-image-173444044.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhv0QkoQ690wkl1OY67k9pHeBNX3OwvQIBXF4Y80IwLMKUo_EsXJkKdNHRu8w9_yOH1b-8z7ndxz26gLVirtbbE0jjyMEwsBkEKf8ZYKkWTUe3vqYw5pojgsbLl8OxnVdo0_HkKH0X0FBVm/s640/blogger-image-173444044.jpg"></a></div></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div>Baby was weighed and measured, 7 lbs, 8 oz and 20 inches. It was my most intense birth experience, but so incredible to catch my baby all on my own. </div><div>Our family is complete. :)</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15355486182575839930noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4673509264429605023.post-60074033639274148222014-08-21T20:10:00.001-04:002014-08-21T20:12:32.703-04:00Fourth Time's a Charm<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;">I never would have imagined we would be where we are before a year. Baby J is now wholly sustained by my breastmilk and solid food. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;">He nurses often, eats 3 meals a day (and sometimes a snack or two) and has a sippy cup of water available to him whenever he's thirsty. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">It's really incredible. I never would have expected this. I don't know if my supply has just gotten so much better because I've addressed my </span><a href="http://dianaibclc.com/2014/05/06/insulin-resistance-and-lactation-insufficiency-faq/" target="_blank"><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">insulin resistance</span></a><span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> with a good diet and exercise, and I'm not sure I'd have enough to fully nourish a baby who wasn't also eating solids, but I don't care. Whatever. It's working!</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">I finally have the kind of nursing relationship I've always dreamed of! I have a baby who can crawl in my lap, latch on, and be satisfied without having to hook myself up with tubes and bottles and "boob tape." It's what I've always wanted. </span><br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15355486182575839930noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4673509264429605023.post-80470184305369690552014-06-07T15:54:00.003-04:002014-06-07T15:54:57.441-04:00So Long, Donor Milk. Hello, Smoothies!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
When I last left you, faithful readers, we had just begun using solid food to supplement Baby J's diet, and it was going very well. But since we'd introduced more solid food, he was less interested in nursing, so I began to pump every 2 hours or so during the day, and feeding him the pumped milk in the SNS. We were using very little donor milk, and some days, NO donor milk, and Baby J was doing fabulously! But the rigorous pumping schedule was difficult to keep up with 4 children and a LIFE, and I found myself using donor milk a little more. But Baby J was becoming more and more fussy... And then I put it together. Even a small amount of donor milk from a dairy-drinking mom made him feel crummy which made for a very cranky, fussy baby. <br />
I decided to stop seeking donor milk, since dairy-free is basically impossible to find. <br />So what do you feed a baby who doesn't drink formula?<br />
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<br />And Baby J is quite content with the situation. I use a canned coconut base, and add banana, avocado, coconut water, a handful of fruit, some fresh greens, and offer him sips throughout the day. He loves it. <br />Today, when I took this picture, we were sitting in the chair and he was nursing. And when I was empty, he started on the smoothie. <br />
Happy growing baby with no tummy ache/happy, relaxed mama. Win/win situation. <br />
We are rarely using the SNS at all anymore (although I do pump a little, and give him an SNS full of milk when I have accumulated enough for a feeding.)<br />
<br />So that's our new routine! So far, so good. </div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15355486182575839930noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4673509264429605023.post-29461035860424000232014-04-20T09:59:00.003-04:002014-04-20T09:59:47.953-04:00Operation: Increase Solids/Decrease Donor Milk Update!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
It's been a little over a week since we decided to try and reduce the amount of donor milk and increase Baby J's solid food intake. It's going very well! After getting over the initial hiccups (trying to figure out how to get more liquids into him because he was dealing with some constipation), we seem to have a good system going.<br />
He's really enjoying the solid food, and I'm enjoying a bit more freedom because I can leave him with daddy while I run errands (or 5Ks!) and I don't really have to worry about him preferring bottles to boobs, because he can eat solids while I'm away.<br />
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Baby J eats a lot of bananas, avocados, bananas mashed with avocados, guacamole, sweet potato with coconut oil, and those organic baby food pouches.<br />
He drinks a little water, a little coconut water, some donor milk, and whatever milk I make.<br />
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I decided last week to stop taking the brewer's yeast and leptaden because they weren't helping. I'm still taking the goat's rue. Not sure if it's helping, but it isn't hurting. I'm pumping when I can, too.<br />
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In just shy of a month, Baby J has gone from 16 pounds, 4.5 ounces to 17 pounds, 14.5 ounces, and he's been a very happy boy! I wasn't sure at first, but I think this was definitely the right choice for our family.</div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15355486182575839930noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4673509264429605023.post-89219212042969680472014-04-11T12:50:00.002-04:002014-04-11T12:50:48.894-04:00Operation: Increase Milk Supply and Solids/Decrease Donor Milk is in effect!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Baby J is now 6 months old, and we have started adding solid foods. At first, my plan was just to use solid foods for fun and learning how to eat, but recently, donor milk has been a bit harder to come by, so, under the guidance of dear friend (who also happens to be an IBCLC), I am attempting to increase his solid food intake and decrease his donor milk intake (He will not take formula.). I have also decided, despite my prior promise to myself to just let my milk supply be what it would be, to attempt to increase my milk supply with some galactogogues.<br />
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3 tablets of brewer's yeast, two tablets of leptaden (an aryurvedic medicine I though gave me a slight boost with Lola.) with breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Goat's rue should be arriving tonight!<br />
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Nurse Baby J, then offer solids: (Sweet potato mixed with coconut oil, banana and applesauce), offer water after bath.<br />
Nurse again, and then offer 50ml of donor milk in the SNS.<br />
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Nurse Baby J, offer solids: avocado mixed with banana. Offer water after his bath.<br />
Nurse frequently. Offer donor milk when he is obviously not satisfied with nursing and water.. (Disclaimer: We're not talking about a lot of water, here. He had maybe 3 ounces all day.)<br />
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All told, he had about 8 ounces of donor milk yesterday, about half his normal daily intake. Probably could have been even less, but I skipped a solid food dinner for him because he'd already had two baths that day and I was just done bending over and wrestling a slippery baby. :)<br />
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Baby J seems quite happy with the new arrangement. He really loves to eat food. I'm feeling a little sad and, as usual, inadequate because I know how awesome breast milk is and had hoped it would comprise the bulk of his diet for his first year. But, I can't control what I can't control, but what I can control is making sure he is eating quality, whole foods to make up for the lack of breast milk.<br />
Just doing the best I can in this kind of situation.<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15355486182575839930noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4673509264429605023.post-8927790612554071492014-03-05T20:14:00.002-05:002014-08-01T12:55:11.289-04:00The Sweet Spot<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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As for me, I'm there. I'm finally there. </div>
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When I was pregnant, I decided I was not going to put myself through all the stress of gulping down handfuls of herbs and medications (that didn't help me anyway), I was just going to let my supply be whatever it was going to be. I had my SNS, I had my freezer full of donor milk, and that was that.</div>
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I still had to go through a brief grieving period, but it was much, much shorter than all the others. And we still had to learn to use the SNS together, but it didn't take long. We still dealt with reflux and food sensitivities, but we got that sorted out, too.</div>
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A few months ago, I realized that we were doing it. We were making it work. I no longer had the fear that had haunted me through Lola's first year- the fear that we wouldn't meet my goal of breastfeeding for at least a year. </div>
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I KNOW we're going to make it to a year, and much, much longer.</div>
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But tonight, as I nursed my sweet boy, I had the most amazing realization:</div>
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<strong><span style="font-size: large;">I no longer feel broken.</span></strong></div>
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Yes, half my son's nutritional needs are met by another mother's milk flowing out of a little tube attached to a funny little bottle, but he is so TOTALLY a breastfed baby. </div>
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Our nursing relationship is exactly what I've dreamt about since I first imagined nursing my first baby, all those years ago.</div>
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I'm finally there, in the sweet spot.</div>
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So, I urge you mamas out there, aching with the blow of low milk supply, find your sweet spot. The spot where the only thing that matters is the love that flows between you and your baby. It doesn't have to be the same as my sweet spot. It doesn't even have to involve feeding at the breast or breast milk. This is YOUR sweet spot. </div>
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You'll find your healing there. </div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15355486182575839930noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4673509264429605023.post-31891126529575740992014-02-27T13:46:00.001-05:002014-02-27T13:46:00.501-05:00What Fresh Hell? (Or Life with a Reflux Baby)<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
As we continue to play catch-up of Baby J's early life....<br />
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So, Baby J and I had found what worked for us and we were doing great with the SNS! And then the spit-up came, and with it, a very fretful, inconsolable baby. He was not a happy boy. Days were spent holding, nursing, cleaning up spit up, crying with him. His poops were greenish and mucous-y. What was making my baby so unhappy? <br />
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I decided (grudgingly, but also desperately) to start on an elimination diet. But how would I know what he was reacting to in donor milk? Again, low milk supply was a slap in the face. I started seeking donor milk without the common allergens, but it wasn't always easy to come by. I stopped eating dairy, eggs, gluten, and coffee. Eventually, his poops became normal breastmilk poops, even with donor milk that contained what I was avoiding. <br />
<br />It took me a while to realize that I myself probably have a leaky gut and that was the reason he was reacting to the foods I ate but not the donor milk. <br />
<br />But still, Baby J was a difficult nut to crack. He still cried much more than my other babies had. I was exhausted. He'd been wearing an amber necklace since he was a month old, and I decided to try a hazelwood necklace, too. Within an hour, he was a markedly happier baby. I'm a hazelwood believer.<br />
I also started him dairy-free probiotics, and that's helped him immensely, too. Slowly, the happy and charming Baby J is starting to emerge. <br /><br />These short paragraphs simply can't do justice to the hell that was our life for the first several months, but the little guy is teething and I just don't have the strength to relive it all. Maybe someday. But I'd rather just forget it.</div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15355486182575839930noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4673509264429605023.post-38966050905283734612014-02-26T08:41:00.000-05:002014-02-26T08:41:11.918-05:00Guest Post: "What NOT to Say..."<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<span style="font-size: x-small;">by Brittany Sears</span><br />
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When I was pregnant, I saw lots of information on how to be sensitive to people who are struggling with infertility: don't ask couples when they're planning on starting a family, don't lament your 2 "oops" pregnancies to someone who can't get pregnant, etc. I've been thinking that for those of us who struggle with breastfeeding -- especially when we discover that despite our diligent research and best efforts, we will probably never make enough milk for our baby to eat -- similar information is needed for family and friends. This is a heartbreaking ordeal.<br />
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Here's a list of things I've compiled from my (online) groups. They sound like casual conversation to most people, but are actually emotional landmines for moms who thought they'd be exclusively breastfeeding for the next year. If you'd like to be sensitive to new moms whose background you don't know, or someone like me who you know to have low supply, please take heart! Please share widely if you're inspired to do so, and leave this line, which gives credit to me, Brittany Sears, for writing it.<br />
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<strong> "Are you breastfeeding?"</strong> Here is the stream of thoughts you've just inspired: Am I? Is this really breastfeeding, even though my baby would starve if I didn't add a bottle at every feeding, too? How can I really be a mom if I have to add a bottle? It's not really any of your business, whatever your intentions were when you asked.<br />
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<strong> "Oh, she's so tiny!"</strong> Such an accident, but this is a huge barb for many of us. Yes, she's smaller than your cousin's friend's 15 lb 3-week-old, but she's gained 3 lbs since the day the doctor was talking about hospitalization for failure to thrive. We really don't want to revisit the pain of that conversation.<br />
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<strong>"Breast is best..."</strong> or any other breastfeeding propaganda when you've JUST learned that we can't make enough. Formula is poison? What do you propose I do, let my baby starve?<br />
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<strong> "Everyone can breastfeed if they try hard enough."</strong> Oh REALLY? So visits to two doctors for surgery to fix Lucy's tongue tie, 11 hours with 4 lactation consultants, every supplement known to man, and innumerable books, websites, and support groups isn't trying hard enough?<br />
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Reassurance that <strong>"Formula is fine!"</strong> Yes, it is. But many moms get to CHOOSE formula. We only got to choose it in that we could choose to use formula or have a starved baby.<br />
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<strong> "How long are you going to torture yourself [by breastfeeding what little you can and adding an onerous pumping routine to your day]?"</strong> As long as I can give my baby the best I can, that's how long! Something is better than nothing until *I* decide otherwise.<br />
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<strong> "Have you tried... ?"</strong> Yes. I am forgiving about this one because people are genuinely trying to be helpful, but here's what I personally have tried with no effect. Galactogogue foods: oats, flax, brewers yeast, beer, you name it! Herbal supplements: fenugreek, blessed thistle, red raspberry leaf, goat's rue, alfalfa, chlorella... Gatorade, Emergen-C, too! And even a prescription drug, which has helped marginally. And for the love of Pete, yes, I drink enough water!<br />
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<strong>"I know it's hard."</strong> NO, you probably don't.<br />
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<strong>"Only 1% of women truly suffer from low supply."</strong> Awesome! I guess you should go buy a lottery ticket today, now that you've met me! Maybe you'll see a leprechaun later, too.<br />
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<strong>"Is that all you pumped?"</strong> or <strong>"She's still hungry!"</strong> THANKS CAPTAIN OBVIOUS.<br />
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<strong>Anything about your oversupply.</strong> You cannot imagine what any of us would give to make TOO much milk. (Personally, I don't mind hearing about it from the lovely women who are giving Lucy milk from their freezer stash!)<br />
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I know this list makes it sound like there's nothing you CAN say that isn't an emotional firestorm. And maybe that's true, and it's probably true of any new mom. So what is a good thing to say? Just stick to the positive! <strong>"Your baby is beautiful,"</strong> <strong>"You're doing a wonderful job,"</strong> and <strong>"What do you like most about being a mom?"</strong> are all much better options than asking a stranger if she's breastfeeding.<br />
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<strong>About Brittany:</strong><br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">I’m 29 years old and I just finished my PhD in Biology at the University of South Florida here in Tampa, FL. In fact, I held my 11-day-old daughter throughout the graduation ceremony! Lucy was born just a smidge early, at 36w6d, au natural and 7.0 lbs. After losing a pound in the first 5 days after birth, she did not regain ANY weight in the next two weeks. Our pediatrician then found a tongue tie, which we had corrected. Fast forward 5 weeks of still-poor latches, a second opinion from a wonderful pediatric dentist revealed that she was still tongue-tied, which we had corrected again. Whether due to missing a narrower-than-usual hormonal window, her continued poor latch, or some degree of IGT, I make 6-7 oz per day, including what my daughter gets on the breast. I am only now, at 12 weeks postpartum, settling into a routine and beginning to accept what is our normal. I credit my wonderful husband and family for support, the Freemies pump (so I can pump and hold my baby), and the IGT group for bringing me to terms with everything.</span></div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15355486182575839930noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4673509264429605023.post-57046326860321193762014-02-24T12:14:00.002-05:002014-02-24T12:14:23.210-05:00Low Milk Supply, Take 4!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
So, after our lovely, natural home birth, the stage was set for a great start to breastfeeding.<br />
<br />While I still hoped for a slightly better supply this time, I had no illusions that I would somehow be blessed with a full milk supply. I had prepared. I had syringes, supplemental nursing systems, and a freezer full of donor milk. I was ready for this!<br />
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The first few hours went well. Baby J had a big, blow out diaper full of meconium.Yay! But, as the day went on, it became clear that he wasn't being satisfied by the amount of colostrum I was making. Having gone down the starving baby route before, I wasn't going to let that happen again, and I broke out the syringe and bottle of frozen colostrum. I gave him a few milliliters and popped him back on the breast. Continued ad nauseum.<br />
<br />We brought him to meet his pediatrician when he was 2 days old, and he had lost a pound. Even knowing what I know (different scales, different weights, some weight loss is normal for newborns), it was a very traumatizing visit for me. As a low supply mom, it brought back all the tearful visits of the past with sick and hungry babies. When we got home from his appointment, I offered him a whole ounce of colostrum in the starter SNS. He ate it all. <br />
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I waited, not so patiently, for my milk to come in. Eventually, I felt the telltale hormonal shivers that signaled that my milk was beginning to come in, and come in it did. Slowly. Baby J started actually gulping and swallowing from the breast alone. But the gulping didn't last long, and there continued to be signs that he wasn't getting quite enough. He would "wet" diapers, but his urine was dark and there wasn't much of it. And he wasn't pooping the way he should have been. He was falling asleep before finishing an ounce with the SNS. He was starting down that dangerous road.<br />
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<br />How could this be happening? I was prepared? I knew what I was doing, didn't I? Hadn't I walked this path before? How could I still be screwing this up so badly? <br /><br />All the old feelings of inadequacy came flooding back. My body was a failure, and I was a failure as a mother. Even with all the things I'd done to prepare, I was still failing my baby.<br /><br />Baby J was 5 days old, and I'd already failed him. <br /><br />
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<br /> I was lucky enough to have my dear friend (and IBCLC) be the voice of reason for me. He was working too hard with the starter SNS to get too little milk. It was time to try something else. I tried a bottle. No luck. He couldn't latch. I tried finger feeding. No luck. I went back to syringe-feeding. Still no luck. Could I BE any more of a failure?<br /><br />Frustrated and terrified at the thought of another sick, dehydrated newborn, I cried. I raged. I mourned. I thought I'd been prepared, but I wasn't. I wasn't prepared for the emotional rollercoaster insufficient glandular tissue had dragged me onto, despite all my prior experiences.<br />
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<br />I lay in our hammock in the sunshine, crying, and nursing my baby boy. <br />
I cried for a long time while he slept on my chest. And then I looked around. I saw my three happy and healthy children, and I knew J would be okay. I'd made it work before, I could do it again.<br />
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When he woke, I decided to try the full-size SNS, the same kind I'd used for 20 months with Lola. <br />
It worked. He got the milk he needed without using more energy than he was taking in. Hallelujah! <br /><br />There were still bumps in the road, for sure. Using an SNS isn't quite the same as riding a bike. I still had to figure out how best to position the tubing, and where to place the bottle so the milk didn't flow too fast or too slow, but together, we learned to make it work. <br /><br />Next Post: "What Fresh Hell?" or "Living with a Reflux-y, Colic-y, Food Sensitive, Unhappy Baby"</div>
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I'm back! A few weeks before giving birth to my son, our old computer died and I just finally got a new one (Thank you, Taxreturnmas!). <br />
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So, new nursling, new story. So, let's start at the beginning.<br />
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At 6 p.m., September 28th, 2013, I tracked my first real labor contraction. The kids and I had just gotten in the van to head to the park. About 40 minutes later, I had my second labor contraction, and I decided it was time to head to Daddy's work, have dinner, and then go home and have a baby!<br />
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Everyone pitched in, straightening up the house, and setting up the birth pool while Daddy ran to the store for a few last minute supplies. <br />
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After the pool was set up, it was time to get the girls to bed. I nursed Lola down to sleep with Lulu snuggled up behind me. <br />
Once Lola fell asleep, my contractions really intensified thanks to the oxytocin her nursing released. I got into the shower and my contractions were already overwhelmingly strong. I got out, told Daddy it was time to fill up the pool and called my midwife.<br />
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I turned on some Dave Matthews Band and danced between contractions while I waited for the tub to fill up. Just as the pool finished filling, my midwife arrived. She checked Baby J's heart rate, took my blood pressure, and settled in. Soon, my two photographer friends, my aunt and cousins, and my dad and step-mom arrived, too. <br />
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After relaxing in the tub for a while, my contractions slowed down a bit, and my midwife suggested I get out for a little while to get them going again. I went outside for a few minutes and Daddy went to wake up Lulu. It didn't take long for my contractions to pick back up again and I soon retreated back to the warmth of the tub, this time with Rio and Lulu in tow. <br />
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I was really surprised by the intensity of my labor this time. Laid-back Lola's labor had been so gentle and sweet, I'd only had one contraction that really overwhelmed me, and that was right before I'd enter transition. And even transition with Lola was blissfully brief. <br />
This time, my contractions required my full attention from much earlier on. Little did I know that the intensity of my labor was an indication of the intensity of my soon-to-be-born son. <br />
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The pain was intense, and I vocalized loudly through each contraction. Although it felt like an eternity, soon enough there came the first contraction where I felt pushy at the peak. It was almost time to meet my baby!<br />
<br />Then, the first full pushing contraction came and it felt SO GOOD! Oh, so good to push! I roared through the undeniable, unavoidable, un-ignorable (yes, I made that word up) urge to PUSH and it felt amazing. As intense as my labor contractions were, my pushing contractions were even more so, but what a powerful feeling! My midwife checked quickly to feel where the baby's head was, and it was just a few inches inside. She had me reach in to feel, and I held my fingers there and felt as he moved lower and lower with each push. Soon, more of his head was out than in, and I was holding the top of his head in the palm of my hand. <br />
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After experiencing a 4th degree tear with Lola, I was really concentrating on breathing this baby out, with little bumps of pushing. Slowly, slowly, his head emerged. And then his head was out! I expected to do a lot more work pushing out his shoulders (because Lola was a giant 9lb, 14 ouncer), but instead WHOOSH! With just a little push, he was out. <br />
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"Grab your baby, Nyssa!" And I pulled my tiny new one out of the water. Immediately, he was crying at the top of his lungs and Daddy remarked, "He's the loudest one, yet!" (Again, an omen of what was to come? But more of that in a later post.)<br />
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Big brother Rio cut the cord after it had stopped pulsing. My placenta didn't detach right away and it was hard to see in the murky pool, so I handed the baby to his daddy and went to shower off. <br />
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After a few stitches (I had a very manageable 2nd degree tear this time), and baby J was weighed (8lbs, 8oz, just like big brother Rio!) and measured (20 inches!) and examined, I was put to bed to meet my new little boy.<br />
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A few hours later, I woke up to use the bathroom, and Big Brother and Little Brother snuggled together as I made myself something to eat.<br />
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Here are the links to the slideshows my darling photographer friends made for me: <br />
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<a href="http://video214.com/play/sPc2NmgeLfRF25jrIaOICw/s/dark" target="_blank">Lindsay Lee Photography</a>'s Slideshow<br />
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While I'm not posting much these days, I just wanted to point any newcomers to-<br /><br />the Resources tab on the right side of the page,<br /><br /><a href="https://www.facebook.com/Lactation.Failure" target="_blank">My Facebook page</a> that I update a little more frequently,<br /><br />and the <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/IGTmamas/" target="_blank">IGT and Low Milk Supply Support Group!</a><br /><br />I do check in here once in a while, but I promise, I'll start posting more often when I begin the next chapter in our nursing adventure this fall. <3</div>
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Isn't he cute? <br />We had a follow up ultrasound last week to check on baby J's choroid plexus cyst (which has resolved on its own), and the tech was running ahead of schedule, and she gave me a quick 3D peek! I'd never had a 3D ultrasound before, and it took my breath away to see his little face.<br />
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Lola is still nursing a few times a day, and it's funny to lay tummy to tummy with her, while feeling the baby kick. A sneak preview of tandem nursing? :)</div>
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So, here I am, four weeks and 3 days into my fourth pregnancy. Trying to decide what, if anything, I can or want to try to improve my milk supply this pregnancy. Wondering how, and if, I could handle tandem nursing with low milk supply. Thinking, maybe I should wean Lola at 2 years, or maybe she'll wean herself if my supply gets even lower due to the pregnancy.<br /><br />So far, my plan is to try colostrum harvesting (collecting colostrum prenatally), and to introduce the SNS as soon as needed with the new baby. I hope to be able to secure some donor milk. I'm not sure I'll use any galactagogues this time around. <br /><br />Most importantly, I'm going to try not to freak out. I'm feeling very zen about the pregnancy and baby already. I'm going to try and not let milk production rule my entire life and sink me into depression.<br /><br />So much to think about, so little time.</div>
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<br><i>Eight years ago today, my journey with breastfeeding began. Little did I know what an adventure it was going to be! Although I only breastfed my son for a few weeks before losing myself in despair over my milk supply, that experience only made me more determined to try harder the next time. When my second child was born (4 years ago on the 22nd!), I knew so much more about breastfeeding, but only made it 8 months before I'd had enough of choking down galactogogues and topping up every nursing session with a bottle. But, again, I was only more determined to make breastfeeding work with my next child. And this time, I was lucky enough to have a baby who was just as determined as I was.
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Shortly after my last post (November 5th), I realized our nursing relationship was changing. At first, I was irritated that Lola seemed to want to nurse so often again, after a few months of more "freedom." Lola suddenly made a huge leap in developement, verbally and physically. She was nursing more frequently because she was really becoming more independent, but needed to come back to "home base" to check in.
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Another interesting turn of events: Lola really made the switch: nursing less for food, and nursing more for pleasure/comfort.
It was an amazing feeling when I realized that. And now that she's older, she can communicate what she really wants.
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She asks for "Mulk," and I'll nurse her. If she's just nursing for comfort, she'll nurse for a few minutes, and then run off to play again. If she's nursing because she's hungry or thirsty, she'll nurse for a longer amount of time, and if she doesn't seem satisfied after a few minutes, I'll ask if she wants more milk, and if she says she does, I'll fill and hook up the SNS.
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Sometimes, she'll nurse with the SNS and after an ounce or two, she'll unlatch and ask me to remove the tape and tube. And sometimes, she'll drain the SNS and ask for "Moon!" ("More.")
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But I really love when she leads me to the couch, tells me to sit, climbs into my lap, pulls down my shirt, latches herself on, switches breasts a few times, pulls my shirt back up, climbs down and says, "Bye!"
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This is everything I wanted in a nursing relationship. I'm so glad I stuck it out.
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Never thought I'd have this issue, but sometimes... I could be done with nursing.<br />
I'm not *really* weaning, but I do sometimes try to redirect her, especially after a night of constant chomping on my sore, empty breasts. <br />
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Just so weird, after constantly worrying about her weaning before I was ready, I could potentially wean and not really feel bad about it.<br />
I'm still hoping to at least make it to my goal of 2 years and beyond, and I think we will.<br />
And when she's decided she's done, I'll be ready.</div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15355486182575839930noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4673509264429605023.post-32363560304051333982012-09-27T10:37:00.002-04:002013-01-10T15:51:58.813-05:0018 Month (updated!)<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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11 days ago, we hit a year and a half of breastfeeding. A year and a half of struggles, triumphs, anguish, anger, despair, elation, love, and accomplishments. And healing.<br />
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There was a time, in the last year and a half, that I thought about having another baby. About doing whatever I could try, between weaning and becoming pregnant again, to build more breast tissue. About becoming a guinea pig; taking hormones, taking herbal supplements, in an effort to make my glandular tissue "sufficient."<br />
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But now, I am at a point where I think I am done making babies and struggling to breastfeed them. I had one amazing, life-transforming natural birth. I have one amazing, awesome, soul-healing nursing relationship with a baby who loves nursing, and hated bottles.<br />
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I know many moms out there, struggling with low milk supply, but desperate for a nursing relationship, are fighting a losing battle with the bottle, a baby who won't latch, a baby who hates the SNS.<br />
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<span style="text-align: left;">And I know I am lucky. I don't take it for granted how lucky I am. I didn't work any harder, do anything better than those moms who are grieving their lost nursing relationship. I just got lucky.</span></div>
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<span style="text-align: left;">And I know I might not get that lucky again. </span><br />
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<span style="text-align: left;">So I'll quit while I'm ahead. I'll nurse my little girl until she decides it's time to move on, and then... we'll move on. </span><br />
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<span style="text-align: left;"><b></b>Or not.<b> </b>Looks like I may have tandem SNSing in my future...</span><br />
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This morning, as I was sitting on the couch reading, Lola climbed into my lap, pointed to my chest and said, "Om nom nom!" and pulled down the top of my tank top, latched herself on and got comfortable.<br /><br />And I realized that I'd gotten what I'd wanted all along. My goal to nurse a toddler has truly been reached.<br />Through all the ups and downs, ins and outs of having low milk supply, we still made it.<br /><br />And I am grateful for those I've met on this journey who helped me get through the difficult times, who inspired me to keep going through their examples of nursing into toddlerhood and beyond. And I'm inspired by those who have given their all despite low milk supply, whatever that means for each mother and baby.<br /><br />Every month, Lola has a nursing strike, nursing as little as twice a day, for the week leading up to my period, and it always terrifies me that she's really weaning. And so far, she hasn't. And I breathe a sigh of relief for another couple of weeks. I don't know how much longer our nursing relationship will last, so I'm going to savor every moment.<br /><br /></div>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15355486182575839930noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4673509264429605023.post-28938202531294229872012-08-12T00:00:00.001-04:002012-08-12T00:00:18.981-04:00Every Ounce Counts<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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I got to donate milk tonight! True, it wasn't much, but it is probably the only time I will have the opportunity to donate.<br />
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A friend of mine was desperately seeking breast milk for her niece, and I had a couple of bags of donor milk I'd been hanging onto in case Lola every got sick and would benefit from having all breast milk supplementation.<br />
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Well, no use hanging on to it for a just-in-case when someone needed it NOW, so I dug it out of the freezer, and found these two bags I'd pumped a few months ago.<br />
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Originally, my plan was to set aside an ounce every night to donate. But then I thought about it, and since I really never had an "extra" ounce, it would make more sense to just to keep whatever milk I could make and give it straight to my own baby. Selfish, maybe.<br /><br />But I finally got to give back a little bit. A very little bit, ha ha.<br />
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Love these videos Melissa K. made to celebrate and honor those of us with low milk supply for World Breastfeeding Week 2012!<br />
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A year ago, Lola was almost 5 months old, and we had the SNS thing down to a science (sure, it wasn't an exact science, but it was working well enough for us),and I remember wondering if we would still be nursing when the next WBW kicked off. <br />
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I hoped so, but, often times, for mothers like me, it's hard to predict the future of nursing with low milk supply.<br />
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Though many times I have entertained thoughts of throwing in the towel, or wondered the best way to continue, second-guessed myself and questioned my sanity, Lola has always had an answer for me. <b>And I listened. </b><br />
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She is now a far busier baby, having learned to walk, and doesn't nurse nearly as much as she used to, but she knows she always has me, and her boobahs, when she needs them.
And thanks to the SNS, it doesn't matter if I'm having a very low supply day* (week, month), she can still nurse to satisfaction.<br />
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Will we still be nursing when next year's World Breastfeeding Week rolls around?
Only my Lola knows for sure.<br />
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(For those of you unfamiliar with my story- here's a link to a<a href="http://diaryofalactationfailure.blogspot.com/2012/01/breast-of-times-worst-of-times-story-of.html" target="_blank"> post I wrote about our initial struggles</a>.)<br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;"> *I have taken up pumping again, but on a much looser, sanity-saving schedule, -as needed- to help keep my supply up when Lola doesn't nurse as often as needed to keep up my milk supply. If I ever get a moment, I might just right up a blog post about it. </span><br />
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<strong>I’m celebrating World Breastfeeding Week with <a href="http://naturalparentsnetwork.com/celebrate-world-breastfeeding-week-2012/" target="_blank">Natural Parents Network</a>!</strong><br />
You can, too — link up your breastfeeding posts from August 1-7 in the linky below, and enjoy reading, commenting on, and sharing the posts collected here and on <a href="http://naturalparentsnetwork.com/" target="_blank">Natural Parents Network</a>.<br />
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<br />When we got our tax return back in February, and I used it to purchase tickets for the kids and I to fly up to New Jersey to visit my family, I set a goal to still be breastfeeding by the time we got to New Jersey in late June. And we made it to that goal.<br />Yesterday, we made it to 16 months of nursing! Twice as long as my previous longest nursing relationship of 8 months.<br />Having the SNS has made a huge difference. Lola's been sleeping through the night more often, and I know my milk supply has taken a hit from that and from less frequent nursing during the day. But we are able to maintain our relationship because of the SNS. We still get to cuddle and nurse, and she still gets a few ounces of milk (and I keep my sanity, because without those supplemental ounces, she might nurse for hoooouuuurrrrssss trying to get half as much milk as she would get with the SNS.)<br /></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15355486182575839930noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4673509264429605023.post-29601622777920299552012-06-22T01:24:00.002-04:002012-06-22T01:24:29.770-04:00<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Tomorrow, the kids and I are flying out to New Jersey to visit family for two weeks, and I will have limited access to a computer.<br /><br />If you have any breastfeeding-with-low-supply questions in the meantime, join our group! <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/IGTmamas/">https://www.facebook.com/groups/IGTmamas/</a></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15355486182575839930noreply@blogger.com0